Sunday, December 27, 2015

Week 25 pictures




A cool mug!




For those who care, here are the Raiders at their game last night!



Downtown Oakland at Christmas, pretty much the same!


This is Grandma Hang's Christmas Tree.  She lives alone, and somehow this tree gets put up every year. No one knows how, but she always gets it done without any help.  Rumor has it that the three Nephites help her!



Here's me celebrating on Christmas Eve!


Here's me playing on the playground at our apartment


A Christmas Picture


We got 3 hygiene kits from people.  So for those who sent them, we get the hint!


Christmas Pig from the Samoan Family in the Oakland 9th!



So many festivities!



A guy we met contacting, he taught us a bunch of Cambodian words for like an hour!


Doing some service for children, in a truck!


A picture from Jonathan's baptism


Better picture of me celebrating!


At the Hang's on Christmas Eve


Elder Hibbert's mom sent us Star Wars Pajamas!

spending time with my District on Christmas Day!




 This is 74th Ave. We left a member's house and told them we were headed here, and they cringed and asked if the person we were teaching wanted to come to their house instead of us going there.  It's a pretty crazy place!


Cool street in Oakland. 


Driving around the Bay after dinner




Week 25

12-25-15
I hope everyone is having a merry christmas!!!
 I am so incredibly grateful for my savior Jesus Christ, I know he lives. I will send more later on my week, but let me know how all your christmas's go!!! I love you all!!!

Elder Tolman



12-28-15
Alrighty, so the Lord had a big plan that came together this weekend!! 


Saturday, we had a correlation meeting with Poamrong, but before we went we had a few extra minutes, so we pulled out a few old lists of potentials and went on a hunt! We went to the first house, and they let us in! The husbands name is Sea, and he had a bunch of really awesome questions about why there are so many churches, and we found out that as of now he is baptist. he is super nice and loves that we speak Khmer! We left with two new investigators! That day we also got a referral from the AP's for a cambodian family near our apartment!!

Sunday, We had church as usual, but Chantha's whole family came! Her mom has sat in on lessons before, but has never seemed too interested, but then she came to church!! It was awesome! Bunthai came too, which meant two weeks in a row! That is more than he has come the entire rest of the time I've been here! That night we went to teach him, and he talked about a talk that was shared in sacrament. The women talked about how her oldest son was killed in a drive by shooting, and that her next oldest son went to get revenge and ended up in prison, and Bunthai was his Cell partner. It was so powerful to him, and the spirit testified to him that he needs to change. He shared his life story with us and how he was heavily involved in gangs for a long time, it was amazing to hear how sincerely he wanted to change. When all was said and done, we committed him to be baptized on February 28th!! It was incredible!! 

There is so much power that enters your life when you allow the gospel to become apart of the things you do. It allows you to see whether or not your choices are going to in the end make you happier or ruin you, and ultimately, lead you to God or the Adversary. I love helping people get on and stay on the path to God, and I know that the Church is True. I love you all and hope you have and awesome week!!! Happy New Year!!!

love, 
Elder Tolman

Monday, December 21, 2015

Week 24 pictures












Week 24

Hello hello hello!!

I don't have a lot of time, we have a short Pday for christmas, but What An awesome week!!! Jonathan got Baptized on sunday!! It was awesome!! the only white member of the Cambodian branch!!

Monday we had three lessons at the end of the day, it was great! I can't believe it!
 
Tuesday we went and did service for about 5 hours organizing toys, it was insane
Wednesday we had district meeting and Elder Apostolos got his Wisdom teeth out and still came to the meeting, it was hilarious
 
Thursday more toy organization for a while, then goin'  out to spread the gospel! Good day! we had Five lessons!! That is the most we have had in one day since I got here!!! We met with one less active who basically just bore his testimony to us that he knew the church was true, and told his friend that lives with him that he should get baptized. Plus we only spoke Khmer so it was really fun!

Friday we had a couple more lessons and weekly planning, nothing too crazy or exciting

Saturday we had our branch Christmas party!! It was awesome, so many people came that the branch had never met before, we were super grateful to be able to have worked hard and getting the word out, it was a super Cambodian party, they went and turned off the Christmas music and started playing their karaoke music, it was so funny, the old ladies got up and started dancing.

Sunday Jonathan got baptized!! There were like 50 people there, I was so happy for Jonathan. I got to give a talk on Baptism, I loved it!
 
I feel really blessed for this last week, we met almost all of our goals and had so many teaching opportunities! I love the Gospel so much and I love My Savior most of all!! I hope every one has an incredible CHRISTmas and stays safe and all that! I love you all!!!
Love,

Elder Cameron Tolman

Monday, December 14, 2015

Week 23 Pictures

 
Nasty Baby duck
 
 
 

 Lost in service is taking on a new meaning!  Lots of toys to sort!


Oakland Temple Lights
 

Week 23

This week was pretty solid. I'm satisfied. We had a week of crazy high goals, and it was awesome, we worked harder than ever to meet them, and we had a great results!!
Monday was cool, we got to go teach bunthai again after dinner with Sally's family, then we went to bed!
 
Tuesday we had district meeting and taught Prim more about the restoration! He loved it, he said Joseph smith is one of his new heroes, second to Christ. He's a stud. after that we started an exchange with our zone leaders! Elder Hibbert bought them some baby duck eggs to eat, it was awesome, except that the one I took was super nasty and rotten... super disgusting.
 
Wednesday we went to work in the good ol' W.C. and this jehovahs witness tried to tell us to quite being missionaries, and Elder Apostolos and I looked at each other, said a silent prayer, and followed the spirit in explaining in detail every claim he made against us and broke down all the false doctrine he was throwing at us, and long story short, Elder Apostolos has a new investigator after a few tears or sad realization. The guy was so bent on finding the truth, and the spirit testified to him while we taught him, and he realized that there was truth to what we were saying, it was amazing, like something out of the scriptures. We taught one member about the temple also, he just found out he is getting married, it was a super cool lesson!
 
Thursday we had a cool service for a program that gives toys to kids! we got to organize a bunch of toys for like 4 hours, it was fun! 
 
Friday we taught bunthai again! we read a ton out of 1 Nephi with him, he loves it! he said he is super excited to learn more! after that we went caroling with the branch!
 
Saturday was incredible. Elder Larry R. Lawrence came and spoke. I learned so much, It was a deep doctrine, inspirational, motivational, reminder kind of talk from him and his wife. I loved it. Right after we went to teach prim and he said he wants to move his baptism to be sooner!! he has progressed so much in the last two weeks, it's unreal. 
 
Sunday was cool, Prim and Jonathan made it to church, bunthai got called in to work. Brother Sot got a ton of new ties and gave each of us one for christmas! It was awesome! After we went to teach Bunthai, and his girlfriend came to sit in, and we got a new investigator! her name is Desiree, and she has a ton of awesome questions!! We are going to get two more people married and ready for baptism!!!
 
 I am so grateful for the amazing change the gospel brings for people, and the power that is given when you choose to follow the savior!! I love christmas as much as ever and am so grateful for the gift of our savior Jesus christ, I love all of you!!! Merry CHRISTmas!!!!

Love,
Elder Cameron Tolman

Tuesday, December 8, 2015

week 22

It's been a great first twelve weeks in the field! Now I'm all grown up! This last week was awesome. We have been praying so hard for more people to teach and more opportunities to share the gospel with Cambodians, and the Lord pulled through of course, after many weeks of consistent and hard work!!

Monday we had an awesome dinner with Sally and her son Sean who is getting ready for a mission, then we went to teach Jonathan! We had a really powerful lesson on the Atonement, it was awesome.
 
Tuesday we had had district meeting, and we met in this tiny little room in the church because it was getting cleaned in all the big rooms, it was pretty funny. We went to a less active lady's house for dinner, and we met her less-active son who is a really cool interior designer. He asked us to stop by again next time we were close! After that we went back to Oakland to teach Prim! We taught him the Gospel of Jesus Christ, and Lyana, one of the recent converts in the branch helped us teach! it was an awesome lesson!

Wednesday was crazy. We had service that morning then drove out to Antioch to help our branch's 1st counselor move a bunch of bricks. we were expecting a ton to do, cause he asked us to drive about 40 minutes to help him, but it only took about 15 minutes haha! he invited us inside to feed us and while we were walking in he said "we will warm up a costco pizza and watch the warriors game!" we laughed and said ok and stuff thinking he was joking, but he did exactly that. He sat us down in his fancy game day chairs, brought out the pizza, had his son say a prayer over the food, then turned the game on! Elder Hibbert and I were a little surprised and just looked at each other for a minute, then told him we had to leave soon to go teach, he was a little surprised and asked if we couldn't stay and watch with him for a few minutes, we told him he could come with us, but the game that day was VERY important! They were playing the hornets!

Anyway, after that, we went to change, and I realized I had forgotten my proselyting shoes, and we were a good hour and a half away from home with traffic! we went to get some shoes for me at ross so we could go to work, and then went to a less-actives house who owns a Donut shop named Jayce! He was happy to see us and said he thought the missionaries had forgotten about him, then he asked his wife if we could stop by at the Donut shop to see her when we finished teaching him! We went to see her in the shop and helped her clean up a little, then she gave us a ton of Donuts! It was awesome. We headed back to oakland after trying to contact a few more people there, then went back to oakland to contact a referral. We went to the house and knocked on the door- no anser. We knocked again, and we heard a bunch of people running around, then this huge cambodian guy opened the door! He just walked away, and his wife was standing there, then all of a sudden, her Daughter Anastasia came to the door and was like "Hi Elders!! What are you doing here??" Anastasia came with a member to a branch family home evening two months before and we were unable to get any information to go visit her, so we were pretty disappointed, but a less active had told us that cambodians live in her house, so we knocked on the door, and now we are set to teach her whole family on Wednesday!!!

Next, we asked for referrals before we left, and they referred us to their uncle close by, and we went to visit right after, he said we could come back, and then referred us to his neighbors! It was amazing!! We got 8 potential investigators in one day!! That is more than we have found every other day put together since I got here!!! 
 
Thursday we had a baptismal interview that for various reasons took three hours, so we didn't get to go teach until around 4:30, and we still had to drive back to go to San Leandro in rush hour, so it was closer to 5:30 when we got there. We went to knock on the door, and the Less-active that we were scheduled to meet was home, but he wouldn't open the door that day, he just ignored us. We were pretty bummed. We went to get dinner really quick, then went to contact the rest of the night.
 
Friday we had quite an interesting day. All our lessons fell through, so we went through a bunch of old records for investigators and went to contact them. We met one guy who had been a referral for like three months, and he asked us when we could meet with him besides fridays! It was awesome! We have on investigator named Bunthai, and he called us and asked us to come teach him!! It was amazing. He is not the kind of person to do that. He genuinely wanted to learn and we finished the night off with an awesome lesson on the restoration.
 
Saturday was pretty crazy, in that everyone we were going to meet with managed to get really busy at really inconvenient times. We contacted a lot instead, with not too much success, but the saving grace was we went with Siphal to teach Prim the Plan of Salvation! We left with a new baptismal date for February 28th! 
 
Sunday was pretty good also, we went to teach Bunthai again that night and had Three investigators at church! It was a very successful Week in the Cambodian 10th! All by the grace of God! The Church is so True. I'm pretty sure I say that every week, but it is because it is. I love that we are able to pray to our heavenly father for help with those things we have a desire to accomplish.

I know that the Lord Is ready and willing to help with any and Everything we need, just take the time to ask for his help!! I love being a missionary! I love all of you! I hope everyone stays very focused on the real reason for this Christmas season, and if you haven't yet, go watch the new Christmas videos on the church website!! 

With Love, 
Elder Cameron Tolman

Monday, November 30, 2015

Week 21 Pictures

Post-Thanksgiving dinner at Boston Market
 
 
 
Sunrise in Oakland


Jonathan called us and asked us if there were any members that didn't have turkeys on Thanksgiving, and handed off Three Huge Turkeys for us to go give away!!!  They will go to use pretty quick!


Week 21

I Love being a missionary. This last week has been one of the hardest and one of the coolest yet.

Last monday, we finished off a lesson with a less-active named Phouen and her two kids Tyler and Nathan. It was so cool, we had been trying to meet with her for about a month before then, and lots of different things kept happening to keep it from working out, but then she finally called us back and said she could meet! We called Siphal to come with us to fellowship her, and he said he had just been let off work early so he would be right there! We taught an awesome lesson on having faith in God and really following the commandants and living the gospel. It was awesome, and Siphal said he was super grateful for the opportunity to feel like a missionary again. It was the coolest.

Tuesday we had a Zone Training and then got Panda Express with some Elders for Lunch, then went to teach some people back in Oakland. We also got to teach Prim that night, which was awesome. He is progressing really slowly, but it's really cool, cause the way we teach him is exactly how we would teach in the MTC, just better, and We always know exactly what to say! He has a really hard time understanding the Gospel, but he is doing awesome!
 
Wednesday we had some service, then got to teach a less-active named Saroueth, and we taught about Jesus Christ and he cried so hopefully It was because of how strong the spirit was haha! We went to ZLC after that, it was good! That night we didn't have any success trying to contact, it was a little rough.

I Already talked about thanksgiving, I hope everyone elses was awesome too!!

Friday we got back to work right away!! And by that I mean we went knocking doors all day because all three of our lessons fell through haha! It was a long day, but we kept going!! we met some nice people, but no Cambodians unfortunately!

Saturday was great. We had been praying all week that we would be able to find more people to teach and more opportunities to teach the people that met with us. One Less active named Daven (The super crazy one) said he could meet with us, and we went over, and he told us that he tried praying to get the people to go away, and it worked until he did crack again, then they wouldn't leave him alone. He freaks us out a little, but it is really cool to be able to come to him with the power God has given us to bring light into his life that hasn't been available to him for years. After that, we got to go meet with one of the Young men in our branch named Sean. He is 17 and wants to get ready for a mission, so the mission president started these things called "mini missions" where he will be able to go out with the missionaries for a couple days! We taught him about how to use preach my gospel, it was really cool. Next, we met this old guy that we had never taught before!! His name is Om Lim, and he is a mechanic in Oakland. He gave us a bunch of fruit and said he was too busy for church, but that will change soon. He was way cool. after some dinner at Boston Market from Chantha and Jonathan, we went to see the lights at the temple!! Prim and his daughter Melissa came to meet us there, it was so fun! I can't quite say it's as cool as salt lake, but it was super neat. There were probably over 1000 people there! Lots of Missionary work!! 

Sunday at church, our branch presidency asked us to get up and tell the branch what we need from them, and we ended up getting 13 lessons scheduled from it. God answered our prayers!!! after church, we went to teach a recent Convert at Chanthas house in East Oakland, and Her non-member brother came in while we were all bearing testimony, and we invited him to sit in with us, and he did!! I felt like I should ask him to share his Testimony, cause he has been taught by missionaries in the past, and he did!! He said that he knows it's true, but that the kind of person he is isn't the kind of person God needs. We talked with him for probably an hour and ended up getting a new investigator too!! Heavenly Father took care of us this week, but only because we did our part in doing his work. 

I know that Prayers are answered, and I am so grateful for a loving Heavenly Father who wants to speak with us. I know that he is looking out for us, and always making sure we follow his plan. never doubt that he will answer you. Never have too much pride as to not turn to God with any and everything. I love being a missionary!! The Church is true!!!

Love, 

Elder Cameron Tolman

Monday, November 23, 2015

Week 20 pictures

 
It's getting really cold in Oakland any time past 5pm now. So I got this sweet coat!
 
Here's my zone at "Zone Training", everyone is dong the Walnut Creek zone sign
 
When Elder Apostolos was with us we went to dinner at our super rich member's house and they showed us their brick oven pizza oven
 
 
And his train collection, the Halloween set.
 
Elder Apostolos and Elder Hibbert and the bay
 
The California Oakland/San Francisco mission

We went out to eat at McDonalds.  First time I've had fast food in months!
 

I got this new beanie a little while ago too, I'm pretty excited!


I finally used my Chick Fil A gift cared after Zone Training








 
 
We got haircuts, Elder Hibbert didn't like his. . . . 



Cool sky outside our apartment


This sweet corvette we saw in the dumpiest part of Oakland


Downtown Oakland






One of our less active members got back from Cambodia and got us each one of these beauties

 
 
Some well cooked TURTLE for ya!



And we met this crazy guy named Calvin about a week ago, and we went back to the place where we met him and we saw this sign:


A cool mural we went by


Here's a crack house we walk past pretty often.  There's this one guy who walks outside and pees every time we go by.


And a more pleasant picture of the sky


the Oakland Temple!
 

Dinner with the Hung Family, Grandma Hung sure can cook!


 
We decorated this tree at the visitors center, Khmer style!


We saw this awesome car in the least likely place, a really bad neighborhood!


Downtown Oakland


Turkey Bowl with my District, totally work getting up at 5am on Thanksgiving!  Love these guys!